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When people say, ” You know why your single… because you think too much” and every time we roll our eyes and say “here we go again.” But in all honesty, it makes sense. Even though it maybe the most horrible way for a person to say that. But have you ever thought of a friend or family member that is so smart (or thinks so) that he/she will find any way to show how smart they are. Why do we get mad at that? Why would we get mad at a person that is in fact intelligent, and is exercising it? Because it is arrogant.
We find a person who tells us something we don’t know, is only interesting when we find something else charming/ attractive/ kind about them before that, during a first date. Most of us want an intelligent person, but for long-term relationships it becomes less relevant of why they stay together. When women say they want an intelligent man, its because of stability and conversation. But the most intelligent people maybe the most distant and anti-social. Also, we know that intelligence does not equal stable career.
Definition of INTELLIGENCE
1a (1) : the ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations : reason; also : the skilled use of reason(2) : the ability to apply knowledge to manipulate one’s environment or to think abstractly as measured by objective criteria (as tests)b Christian Science : the basic eternal quality of divine Mindc : mental acuteness : shrewdness
Definition of HEART12: one’s innermost character, feelings, or inclinations <knew it in his heart> <a man after my own heart>3a : the central or innermost part : center
But heart, that is why we associate with love. Rolls in with kindness, selflessness, giving, and so on. Also, why a person will make it further in a relationship using heart over using their wit. Intelligence is idetified as an individual duty, the must be right attitude. While heart by definition is involving another person, the I may be right or wrong, but I want to make things better.
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