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Heart Beats Brains Any Day

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When people say, ” You know why your single… because you think too much” and every time we roll our eyes and say “here we go again.” But in all honesty, it makes sense. Even though it maybe the most horrible way for a person to say that. But have you ever thought of a friend or family member that is so smart (or thinks so) that he/she will find any way to show how smart they are. Why do we get mad at that? Why would we get mad at a person that is in fact intelligent, and is exercising it? Because it is arrogant.

We find a person who tells us something we don’t know, is only interesting when we find something else charming/ attractive/ kind about them before that, during a first date. Most of us want an intelligent person, but for long-term relationships it becomes less relevant of why they stay together. When women say they want an intelligent man, its because of stability and conversation. But the most intelligent people maybe the most distant and anti-social. Also, we know that intelligence does not equal stable career.

Definition of INTELLIGENCE

(1) : the ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations : reasonalso : the skilled use of reason(2) : the ability to apply knowledge to manipulate one’s environment or to think abstractly as measured by objective criteria (as tests)b Christian Science : the basic eternal quality of divine Mindc : mental acuteness : shrewdness

Definition of HEART

: the emotional or moral as distinguished from the intellectual nature: asa : generous disposition : compassion <a leader with heart>b : loveaffection <won her heart>c : courageardor <never lost heart>
: one’s innermost character, feelings, or inclinations <knew it in his heart> <a man after my own heart>
a : the central or innermost part : center

But heart, that is why we associate with love. Rolls in with kindness, selflessness, giving, and so on. Also, why a person will make it further in a relationship using heart over using their wit. Intelligence is idetified as an individual duty, the must be right attitude. While heart by definition is involving another person, the I may be right or wrong, but I want to make things better.

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5 thoughts on “Heart Beats Brains Any Day

  1. Great short post which makes a lot of sense.

    In the seduction community,we have a concept that smart men don’t get laid.It’s true.The ppl in the world with the most knowledge happen to have difficulties in dating.The reason isn’t much of having knowledge,but it’s more likely that ppl who think too often are too busy analyzing things instead of being go-getters(like someone who lacks knowledge).Smart ppl have the brains/knowledge,but not-so smart ones have the heart to do and act.

    Posted by Socialkenny | February 21, 2012, 3:54 pm
  2. Exact point, thank you! Over thinking is the big issue, decisions about relationships and dating could not be put in a pro/con list it is in fact how you feel. Which is harder because it is not logical, it is not in a textbook, and the best person to know is self.

    Posted by Nova | February 21, 2012, 4:08 pm
  3. Let me pose a question…what is the likelihood that our chemistry and unconscious attraction will result in good relationship choices? The failure rate of relationships suggests that the odds are low.

    Your brains can help your heart. Being conscious and using your head allows you to get what you really want in your heart. Let me ask you this question: do you know what your requirements are for a relationship? When I say “requirements” I mean the non-negotiable traits of your ideal relationship, not your partner. Big difference.

    When you know your requirements for a relationship and you put language to them, we are really trying to be conscious of something we must experience in a relationship for it to work for us. Remember ALL your requirements are about YOU, and it is largely up to you to refine those requirements and be committed to them or your not going to be happy and your relationship will fail.

    Your brains can help your heart make conscious relationship choices for a long, fulfilling, loving relationship.

    Posted by Scott Simpson | February 21, 2012, 4:37 pm
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    Posted by facebook stock | January 17, 2013, 1:57 pm

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